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In today’s landscape of social media noise and technological advancements, almost anything goes. Where once there were editors, publishers, and gatekeepers for the content we consume, now anyone with a smartphone can write, record, film, and publish with reckless abandon.
The Internet has democratized the sharing and distribution of creative content. In the past, you needed talent and connections, now you just need a smartphone and social media accounts to share whatever you like.
This is a good thing because it’s easier than ever to share content, and the underrepresented have a greater voice now. …
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·Mar 21
My mother was a Parkinson’s patient. Her tremors made it difficult to eat, and she was unable able to walk.
As she aged, Mom needed to go to doctor appointments more frequently. Fortunately, she lived in the same town where I worked, and I was able to take her to appointments.
Getting Mom to the doctor was a production. I had to take time off of work because the whole affair was time-consuming.
I’d arrive at her apartment in the assisted living center, and help her into her wheelchair. …
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·Mar 13
I’m allergic to cats. They make me sneeze and wheeze. The problem is something called Fel d 1, which is a glycoprotein produced by salivary and sebaceous glands in cats.
When my wife Nicole and I first met and began dating, I was introduced to her loyal cat. His name was Einstein, and she raised him from a kitten. The two of them were a package deal.
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·Mar 1
The old gentleman knew that more years were chasing him than remained. His beloved Betty had passed away last December. It was awful.
He awoke that chilly winter morning and found her in his art studio, on the floor. A teacup shattered beside her frail body. And in her left hand, his recent painting of daffodils.
It comforted him immensely. That in her final moments, she had picked up his little flower painting. Betty loved the garden and especially daffodils.
“They don’t ask anything of nobody. You just put them in the ground. In decent soil. Then let them do…
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·Feb 26
The sergeant walked into the report writing room and dropped three pieces of paper over my desk. They fluttered down and came to rest on top of my hands.
I recognized two of the papers as my recently submitted vandalism report. The third paper was a photocopy of various vandalism sections from the penal code.
“You used the wrong vandalism section in your report,” the sergeant said in a snide voice, adding, “I photocopied and highlighted the correct section.” Before I could say anything, he spun around and walked back to his office.
“A teacher who is attempting to teach…
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·Feb 21
Libraries used to be silent. I know because back in high school and during my university days, I loved the monastic ambiance of the library.
Nowadays, libraries aren’t so quiet. The one I used to visit in California hosted open room meetings. Kids were laughing and horsing around after school. People didn’t whisper, and the librarians abandoned the “Shush!”
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·Feb 7
Have you ever thought you were right, even when presented with strong evidence to the contrary?
People tend to hold their beliefs and opinions closely. Particularly when those beliefs and opinions are grounded in some kind of moral or ethical viewpoint.
There’s nothing wrong with having strong religious and/or political beliefs, but our attachment to them can dilute our open-mindedness. We become susceptible to confirmation bias, and less willing to grapple with counter-arguments and inconvenient facts.
If we’re not careful, we can fall victim to “monkey trap thinking.” An article in Psychology Today explains:
“In a physical monkey trap, a…
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·Jan 27
It snowed early this morning, but the dogs insisted on a walk anyway. We made the usual rounds in the neighborhood, sidestepping puddles and ice.
Sunshine glinting off pockets of snow peppered the distant mountains. Dark and light grey clouds hovered overhead. There was a chilly but invigorating breeze.
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·Jan 23
Sometimes I spot a flock of birds, departing in mass from the branches of a barren winter tree. It always feels like a sad event to me.
Where once the birds seemed to provide warmth and company to the tree, now they are gone. Like departing souls of those we have loved and lost.
The branches, stripped of their leaves, are abandoned and alone now. Not unlike people, still of sound mind and limbs, but devoid of warmth and color.
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·Jan 19
In 1990 Henna Inam graduated with an MBA and took a job with Procter & Gamble, which provided the foundation of her corporate career. Then she joined Novartis, which led to eight assignments across four divisions, three functions, and four locations over 13 years.
Inam had amazing sponsors, mentors, and experiences in her corporate career, but something was missing. After she turned 40, she experienced a mid-life crisis.
On Inam’s website bio she shares the following reflection:
“My corporate career had been mostly about achievement and climbing the corporate ladder and now I wanted to find my own way to…
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